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DOWNVOTE POWER100.00%
RESOURCE CREDITS100.00%
REPUTATION PROGRESS79.18%
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STEEM
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SBD
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Effective Power
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├── Own SP
0.000SP
└── Incoming DelegationsDeleg
+3.429SP
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steemdelegated 3.429 SP to @xiaochenyou2025/04/22 23:51:42
steemdelegated 3.429 SP to @xiaochenyou
2025/04/22 23:51:42
| delegator | steem |
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steemdelegated 3.532 SP to @xiaochenyou
2024/03/18 03:12:09
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}bluesnipersent 0.010 STEEM to @xiaochenyou- "Hello. Good to see you on Steem. To maximize your rewards, publish your post also on Hive ( hive.blog ) and Blurt ( blurt.blog ) blockchains. Use upvu, jsup or ctime and get instant upvotes"2023/12/18 00:39:42
bluesnipersent 0.010 STEEM to @xiaochenyou- "Hello. Good to see you on Steem. To maximize your rewards, publish your post also on Hive ( hive.blog ) and Blurt ( blurt.blog ) blockchains. Use upvu, jsup or ctime and get instant upvotes"
2023/12/18 00:39:42
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| memo | Hello. Good to see you on Steem. To maximize your rewards, publish your post also on Hive ( hive.blog ) and Blurt ( blurt.blog ) blockchains. Use upvu, jsup or ctime and get instant upvotes |
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2023/12/18 00:39:18
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2023/12/18 00:33:36
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| permlink | absurd-in-2017-the-united-kingdom-actually-sent-a-male-prisoner-to-a-women-s-prison-the-consequences-can-be-imagined |
| title | absurd! In 2017, the United Kingdom actually sent a male prisoner to a women's prison. The consequences can be imagined! |
| body | Before understanding this article, let’s first understand what the term “transgender woman” is. The so-called "transgender woman" means a transgender person who was born with a male biological sex but whose gender identity is female and has changed from male to female. The so-called gender identity means a person's deeply felt gender based on personal experience. To put it simply, all the physical characteristics of him were male when he was born, but inside he was a shy little girl. Karen White from the UK is such a transgender person. His original name is Stephen Wood. But this "uncle" with a rough appearance is not a shy little girl at heart, but a "shrew".  In 2017, he was arrested for multiple assaults, rapes, and sexual crimes against women. In court, he said that he was a transgender woman but had not yet undergone gender reassignment surgery, which meant that he still retained male genitals. But he insisted that he was a woman, which posed a difficult problem for the judge: should he be treated as a man in a men's prison or a woman in a women's prison? After final deliberation, it was ridiculous that the court recognized that he was a transgender woman and sent him to Newhall Women's Prison. This was simply sending a wolf into the flock of sheep. Although White has received hormone treatment, his roots as a man are still there. He can't control himself outside the prison. When he comes to the crowd of women, he is like actively handing lambs to the wolf's mouth.  Not surprisingly, in less than three months, White was jointly reported for sexually assaulting and harassing female prisoners. This matter caused great controversy. In the end, the court admitted that its judgment was wrong and transferred White to Frankland Men's Prison. But unexpectedly, White, who was imprisoned in a men's prison, transformed into a "righteous man" who spoke out for female victims. He wrote a four-page letter to a feminist campaigner in which he called on the government not to put all trans women in women's prisons, unless they have undergone complete, radical gender reassignment surgery. , has become a female both physically and mentally, otherwise she cannot be imprisoned in a women's prison like him. He also said that after he was imprisoned in the women's prison, he saw the fear on the faces of the female prisoners. In their eyes, he was different from them. He was just a man wearing women's clothes and a woman's wig. It's just that they thought he posed a threat to their safety. He believes that trans women who have not undergone complete gender reassignment operations are imprisoned in women's prisons, which will only make vulnerable women live in danger all day long, and they should be living in a safe environment.  I don’t know if he said these things because of his conscience or because he has schizophrenia, but what he said is reasonable. White's scandal sparked a huge discussion at the time, focusing on whether men who identify as women should have unrestricted access to women-only spaces. This is exactly what feminists have been fighting for for years, and apparently not enough attention has been paid to it. The White scandal also has a positive side to the improvement of British laws and regulations. Soon the United Kingdom introduced new regulations:Prohibiting violent or sexual offenders with male genitals from serving their sentences in women's prisons. Requirements can be relaxed only in exceptional circumstances and with ministerial approval. Women, especially women who have been injured, are a relatively vulnerable group in society. When faced with violent crimes committed by men, they are often unable to resist, are extremely vulnerable, and may even be life-threatening. The road to protecting women is long and arduous. In any country, behind every improvement of the law is often driven by crimes caused by some loopholes. Therefore, only by always sounding the alarm and being cautious in every trial can we prevent similar incidents from happening again. Holmes said: The life of the law is not logic but experience. |
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2023/12/17 02:30:06
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| memo | Hello. Good to see you on Steem. To maximize your rewards, publish your post also on Hive ( hive.blog ) and Blurt ( blurt.blog ) blockchains. Use upvu, jsup or ctime and get instant upvotes |
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2023/12/17 02:29:45
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2023/12/17 02:24:36
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| memo | Hello. Good to see you on Steem. To maximize your rewards, publish your post also on Hive ( hive.blog ) and Blurt ( blurt.blog ) blockchains. Use upvu, jsup or ctime and get instant upvotes |
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2023/12/17 02:24:15
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| title | If you are already fifty years old, please take a minute to read it. It will definitely help you. |
| body | If you are already fifty years old, please take a minute to read it. It will definitely help you.  Time flies, and the past is like smoke. In this fast-paced era, if you don't pay attention, you will get old. If you don't pay attention, you will be gone. Time flies much faster than we imagine. If you don’t believe it, you might as well look back and see that your face was full of glory yesterday, but your face is full of vicissitudes today. It's not that I forgot to take care of myself, but it's a testimony that I'm no longer young. When I was young, for the sake of life, for my children, for my family, for my work, for my career, I got up early and stayed up late, never having a good rest, and never taking care of myself. It was only after I turned 50 that I realized that I was so busy before, all for others. I was so busy that I forgot to be kind to myself; Always pleasing others but forgetting to please yourself; He always helps others, but he suffers and wrongs himself! It was only after I turned fifty that I realized that the best way to live in life is not to please others blindly, but to please yourself, act according to your heart, and never act against your heart! If you are fifty years old, please take an extra minute to read it, it will definitely help you!  1. After the age of fifty, don’t leave your children around. Let them adapt to society and let them do what they want to do. After you turn fifty, your children are no longer children, and it’s time for them to learn to be independent. Because you can't control them for a lifetime, they must be independent, they must withstand wind and rain alone, and they must be based on society. Therefore, let go of their hands, let them adapt to society, and let them do what they like. Don't be afraid that they will endure hardship. If they don't endure hardship, they won't know what sweetness is. If they don't endure hardship, they won't know what happiness is. If you endure hardships when you are young, you will have happiness when you are old. If you don't endure hardship when you are young, you will suffer hardship when you get older.  2. After the age of fifty, stay away from people who consume you. The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water. The most important thing in people's interactions is authenticity and sincerity. You are such an insincere person, not worthy of deep friendship. Learn to reject people who only order you and use you, but never value you. In this world, there is mutuality between people. Hello, I am good, everyone is good. It’s definitely not that you need it, I have to help you, I need it, but I can’t find you! We are all 50 years old, and we already understand that not everyone can be summoned at will, not everyone can be used at will, and not everyone can be asked for at will, especially those who are ungrateful! Even if I'm not doing well, I won't let you call me around! No matter how good and outstanding you are, if you look down on me, I will look down on you; if you don't respect me, I won't respect you either! It's not that I don't cherish it, but I cherish it alone, and I can never cherish the friendship between two people. Therefore, no matter how nice you are, you are of no use to me; if you call me, I am not available. If we are all well and don't disturb each other, you won't worry about me and I won't have any worries.  3. After the age of fifty, be a person who can afford to take things and let them go. In the first half of life, I have experienced gain and loss, success and failure, and I have come to understand that the best way to live in life is not to keep the past in your heart, not to remember your mistakes, but to let go of the past and forget the past. Clear away the old memories in the first half of your life and create a clean space in your heart. In the second half of life, live happily without any burden on your heart. After the age of fifty, be a person who can take things and let them go. Don’t worry about the past or the future. Just smile for the rest of your life. Live according to your heart, follow your heart’s wishes and be yourself! Don't care about other people's opinions or comments. Live your own life, walk your own path, and do your own things. Regardless of the results, just do your best and do your best. Don’t force yourself, don’t embarrass yourself, there is only one you in the world, be kind to yourself, care about yourself when no one cares, care about yourself when no one cares, care about yourself when no one cares about you, and coax yourself when no one cares about you. You, only if you make yourself happy, will you be happy, happy, and happy. For the rest of your life, don’t worry in advance, don’t worry unfoundedly, cherish the present, live well in the present, live well in the present, and respect your inner wishes. This is the best way to live after the age of fifty.  |
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| body | Caotou, also known as grass thorn, philodendron, zhugecai, etc., is native to the European Mediterranean region and North America. It is an ancient herbaceous plant in my country. Its fresh stems and leaves are rich in potassium nitrate and flavonoids, and have heat-clearing and detoxifying properties. , nourishing the liver and improving eyesight. The first course: Stir-fried strawberries with eggs! Stir-fried grass head with eggs is a very popular home-cooked dish. Cut fresh grass into small pieces and stir-fry with scrambled eggs. It is delicious and nutritious. This dish can be eaten as is or paired with rice or noodles to make a delicious main course.    The second course: grass cake! Caotou cake is a delicious home-cooked snack. Chop the grass into fine pieces, mix with flour, eggs and other ingredients to form a pancake, then fry on a pan until golden brown. Caotou cake is crispy in texture and has a strong aroma of grass head. It is a very popular snack.    The third course: Jiu Niang Caotou! Fermented Caotou is a delicacy that is very suitable for winter consumption. Boil the grass head and fermented rice into soup. The deliciousness of the grass head and the mellow aroma of the fermented rice blend together, which can both warm and nourish the body.   In general, grass head is a very nutritious vegetable. It can not only be used to make various delicacies, but also has many functions. In daily life, we should eat more grass heads to maintain good health. |
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| body | 很多夫妻,明明开始很相爱,为什么最后还是分开了? 对此,“婚姻教皇”约翰·戈特曼给出了答案。 他曾对700对夫妻进行了长达40年的追踪研究,最后发现: 夫妻之间的矛盾和问题,69%会永远存在。 也就是说,婚姻中注定会有不可消除的差异。 而婚姻美满的秘诀,根本上取决于夫妻对待分歧、冲突和人生的态度。  有句话说: “不管你跟谁结婚,结婚以后,你总会发现你娶的不是原来的那个人。” 电影《婚姻生活》,就讲述了一对夫妻离婚后又重新找到了对彼此的爱。 丈夫约翰和妻子玛丽安事业有成,生活舒适,还相继有了两个女儿。 在外人眼中,他们是一对相敬如宾的恩爱夫妻。 可在他们心里,对方早已不是自己喜欢的样子了。 约翰觉得玛丽安循规蹈矩,非常无趣,两人的生活像一潭死水般毫无波澜。 玛丽安则认为约翰不顾家,不在乎自己,对什么事都不上心。 后来,约翰出轨了一个年轻女孩,跟玛丽安提出离婚。 他歇斯底里地对玛丽安发泄不满: “你和我生活在一个自我封闭的环境里,一切都秩序井然,就像一个时钟一样,但缺乏氧气。” 玛丽安也愤怒不已地指责他,两人大吵一架后,决定分居,协议离婚。 在漫长的拉扯中,他们看对方愈发不顺眼,恨不得此生不复相见。 直到几年后,各自过上新生活的他们偶然相遇。 这对曾经相互怨恨的夫妻,居然又一次爱上了对方。  他们开车到郊外约会,一路上相谈甚欢,找回了最初热恋时的甜蜜。 此时,他们才明白,原来对方一直都没变过,变的是自己看待对方的眼光。 意外吗? 现实中,离婚后又后悔的夫妻不只这一例。 在人际交往中,有个心理学现象叫“光环效应”。 一个人给你留下良好的初印象后,你就会爱屋及乌地认为对方各方面都很优秀。 婚姻中也是如此。 我们爱上一个人时,往往只能看见他身上的闪光点。 步入平淡生活后,“光环效应”逐渐失效,双方的缺点就会一一显露。 因此,大多数夫妻都会觉得对方变了,感情淡了。 其实,那些好与坏一直都存在,只是被你忽视或放大了。 在平淡的婚姻中,要学会阶段性“复习”对方的优点。 只有不断地复习,才会记得最初的心动,一次又一次爱上对方。  大事该“睁眼”,小事应“闭眼” 婚姻中的安全感和归属感,取决于睁一只眼闭一只眼的智慧。 大事“睁眼”,考虑对方的感受,清醒理智地做选择; 小事“闭眼”,不计较鸡毛蒜皮的小事,稀里糊涂地过生活。 这正是杨绛和钱钟书的婚姻经营之道。 做重大决定前,他们总是第一时间跟对方沟通。 从法国学成归国后,钱钟书到清华大学任教,杨绛则带着女儿回到上海父亲家。 有一天,钱钟书愁容满面地回来,说有事跟杨绛商量。 钱钟书的父亲应老友邀请,到湖南蓝田帮他创建国立师范学院。 之后,父亲屡屡给钱钟书来信,想让他去蓝田当英文系主任。 在父亲和家人的百般劝说下,钱钟书动了换工作的念头。 但他没有自作主张,而是坚持要听取杨绛的意见后再做决定。 他的尊重让杨绛深受感动,也明白了自己在他心目中的位置有多重要。 而面对无伤大雅的小事时,他们往往会一笑置之。  钱钟书虽是学富五车的才子,但也有笨手笨脚的憨态。 他不会打蝴蝶结,分不清左右脚,拿筷子像小孩那样一把抓,初到牛津时还摔跤磕掉了大半个门牙。 杨绛生孩子住院期间,他不是砸了台灯,就是弄坏门轴,把家里搞得一片狼藉。 但杨绛并未事事较真,每次都淡定地回一句“不要紧”。 出院回家后,她默默修理了所有家具,悄无声息地解决了这些“烂摊子”。 用尊重建立起信任,用包容培养出和睦,他们的婚姻也被抹上了温暖的底色。 教育家贝拉·列昂尼多娃说: “婚姻的基础是爱情,是依恋,是尊重。” 那些关乎命运的重大决策,不该由着自己的性子一意孤行,做到大事报备,有商有量,才能让伴侣感受到爱与尊重。 那些无关痛痒的生活琐事,则不必非要跟对方斤斤计较,必要的时候,偶尔装傻,才能让夫妻关系更加亲密。   婚姻里,有一个基本定律: “能保持自我平衡的人,更容易拥有幸福的婚姻。” 拥有美满婚姻的男女,人生本就经营得很好。 人生若是一个大圆,婚姻只是其中的一个小圆。  想起畅销书作家meiya讲过的一个真实故事,读完十分扎心。 女孩惠子从某高校毕业后,跑去上海找工作。 因为就业竞争激烈,能力不出众的她只能进入工资低又辛苦的公司上班。 为了节省开销,她和女同事一起租住在简陋破旧的隔断间里。 木地板变形、橱柜门破损、八个人共用一个卫生间,居住环境极其脏乱差; 再加上工作上时不时被客户欺负,挨领导责骂,那段时间她特别落魄。 迫切想要摆脱糟糕生活的她,没过半年,就嫁给了一个比自己大八岁的销售主管。 婚后不久,她就怀孕了,心安理得地当起了家庭主妇。 她曾窃喜,有了婚姻这层“保护伞”,自己坎坷的人生就可以扭转了。 不承想,自己根本没有能力处理好夫妻关系和婆媳矛盾。 育儿的压力、丈夫的不理解、婆婆的不尊重……压得她几乎喘不过气来。 她想暂时离开家庭,却没有过硬的能力找到好工作,只能终日郁郁寡欢。  她的不幸,是由自己一手造成的。 她把伴侣看作自己的“救世主”,把婚姻当成了人生的避难所。 实际上,婚姻只不过是人生的一部分。 只有人生的大圆完整而饱满,婚姻的小圆才会一直被保护。 厘清这个因果关系后,婚姻的难题就会迎刃而解。 作家毕淑敏说过: “婚姻并不仅仅是快乐,是两情相悦,也是生死与共,还是考验与煎熬,是一种对熟悉生活的破坏和一种对崭新模式的建立。” 高质量婚姻的背后,无一不是双方都具有掌控自己人生、并把人生经营得很好的超强能力。 与其为维系婚姻绞尽脑汁,不如开阔自己的格局,把眼界放在更辽远的个人成长上。 人生圆满了,婚姻也不会太差。  听过这样一句话: “婚姻就是爱情、责任、精神成长的综合体,三者缺一不可。” 坚持发现对方的优点,爱意就不会因岁月的流逝而消失; 面对大事沉着冷静,关系就不会因生活的烦琐而变淡; 放大人生的格局和眼界,婚姻就能因彼此的成熟而稳固。 于千万人中牵起彼此的手,是世间难求的缘分。 而想要携手一生,就得担起必要的责任,修炼相处的智慧,滋养彼此的生命。 愿你付真心,善经营,拥抱漫漫岁月中的宝贵温情。 转载作者:许朝暮;来源:有书 |
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| body | 近日 连江一男子杨某某 就因出售“金豆”被判刑  国家二级保护野生植物金豆 金豆 又称“野生山橘”、山金豆、金柑 属于芸香科金橘属常绿植物 可观叶、可观果 果实为朱红色,挂果期长 观赏价值高,深受人们青睐 于2021年9月7日 被列入《国家二级保护植物名录》 如今已被禁止采挖、买卖 仅需2株,便可入刑! 案件详情 2022年6月至9月期间,被告人杨某某未经相关部门批准,擅自向他人收购植物金豆,并通过平台直播间进行出售,直播期间共计成交672单,成交金额53802.4元。同年9月,被告人杨某某在其住所内被公安机关抓获,现场查扣104盆计112株植物金豆。 经鉴定,扣押在案的植物金豆112株,均为《国家重点保护野生植物名录》二级保护植物。上述植物金豆除已死亡8株,其余104株均被公安机关移交相关部门进行培植。 连江县人民法院经审理认为,被告人杨某某违反国家规定,非法收购、出售国家二级保护野生植物,其行为已构成危害国家重点保护植物罪。结合被告人杨某某认罪认罚、退出非法所得、履行生态修复义务等情节,根据被告人杨某某犯罪事实、情节及悔罪表现,最终以危害国家重点保护植物罪判处被告人杨某某有期徒刑二年,缓刑二年,并处罚金人民币10000元,没收违法所得53802.4元,并赔偿森林生态系统服务功能损失人民币887.4元。 一审判决后被告人未上诉,该案现已生效。 法条链接 《中华人民共和国刑法》第三百四十四条: 违反国家规定,非法采伐、毁坏珍贵树木或者国家重点保护的其他植物的,或者非法收购、运输、加工、出售珍贵树木或者国家重点保护的其他植物及其制品的,处三年以下有期徒刑、拘役或者管制,并处罚金;情节严重的,处三年以上七年以下有期徒刑,并处罚金。 野生植物是大自然的宝贵资源 一花一木来之不易 请大家切勿盲目挖采野生植物 更不要有意买卖国家重点保护植物 破坏珍稀物种 必然要为自己的违法行为负责! |
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"body": "近日\n\n连江一男子杨某某\n\n就因出售“金豆”被判刑\n\n国家二级保护野生植物金豆\n\n金豆\n\n又称“野生山橘”、山金豆、金柑\n\n属于芸香科金橘属常绿植物\n\n可观叶、可观果\n\n果实为朱红色,挂果期长\n\n观赏价值高,深受人们青睐\n\n于2021年9月7日\n\n被列入《国家二级保护植物名录》\n\n如今已被禁止采挖、买卖\n\n仅需2株,便可入刑!\n\n案件详情\n\n2022年6月至9月期间,被告人杨某某未经相关部门批准,擅自向他人收购植物金豆,并通过平台直播间进行出售,直播期间共计成交672单,成交金额53802.4元。同年9月,被告人杨某某在其住所内被公安机关抓获,现场查扣104盆计112株植物金豆。\n\n经鉴定,扣押在案的植物金豆112株,均为《国家重点保护野生植物名录》二级保护植物。上述植物金豆除已死亡8株,其余104株均被公安机关移交相关部门进行培植。\n\n连江县人民法院经审理认为,被告人杨某某违反国家规定,非法收购、出售国家二级保护野生植物,其行为已构成危害国家重点保护植物罪。结合被告人杨某某认罪认罚、退出非法所得、履行生态修复义务等情节,根据被告人杨某某犯罪事实、情节及悔罪表现,最终以危害国家重点保护植物罪判处被告人杨某某有期徒刑二年,缓刑二年,并处罚金人民币10000元,没收违法所得53802.4元,并赔偿森林生态系统服务功能损失人民币887.4元。\n\n一审判决后被告人未上诉,该案现已生效。\n\n法条链接\n\n《中华人民共和国刑法》第三百四十四条:\n\n违反国家规定,非法采伐、毁坏珍贵树木或者国家重点保护的其他植物的,或者非法收购、运输、加工、出售珍贵树木或者国家重点保护的其他植物及其制品的,处三年以下有期徒刑、拘役或者管制,并处罚金;情节严重的,处三年以上七年以下有期徒刑,并处罚金。\n\n野生植物是大自然的宝贵资源\n\n一花一木来之不易\n\n请大家切勿盲目挖采野生植物\n\n更不要有意买卖国家重点保护植物\n\n破坏珍稀物种\n\n必然要为自己的违法行为负责!",
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steemdelegated 10.697 SP to @xiaochenyou
2023/12/16 02:06:30
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