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      "body": "Source: http://ezinearticles.com/?Proclamation-to-Men:-Be-A-King&id=8901386\n\nNot indicating that the content you copy/paste is not your original work could be seen as [plagiarism. ](http://www.plagiarism.org/plagiarism-101/what-is-plagiarism/)\n\nSome tips to share content and add value:\n- Using a few sentences from your source in “quotes.” Use HTML tags or Markdown. \n- Linking to your source\n- Include your own original thoughts and ideas on what you have shared.\n\nRepeated plagiarized posts are considered spam. Spam is discouraged by the community, and may result in action from the [cheetah bot](https://steemit.com/steemitabuse/@cheetah/cheetah-bot-explained).\n\nCreative Commons: If you are posting content under a Creative Commons license, please attribute and link according to the specific license. If you are posting content under CC0 or Public Domain please consider noting that at the end of your post. \n\nIf you are actually the original author, please do reply to let us know!\n\nThank You!",
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      "body": ">So let them be right, even when they are wrong. \n\nThis is dangerous. This is how a woman ends up believing she can do as she wants without consequences. Your crown does not depend on her approval. Your are not a fool to do tricks for her entertaiment. Masculinity and femininity compliment each other, recognizing this is important, recognizing how the other gender contributes, it's called gratitude. \n\nPutting women on a pedestal weakens them, they are blind to the harsh reality of men, some of them have even come to think men are in some sort of conspiracy to hurt them.\n\nI was born female, now I look male because I've taken hormones to change my looks. I got to see the other side from the other side and let me tell you, a lot of women are abusing men and most men are letting them because they share your gratitude. \n\nYou are right, you couldn't possibly compare to the zillion things going through her mind. You are no match. But not because she has great power it means she's going to use it correctly. There is danger in believing power equals to its benevolent use. \n\nA lot of women think men are just going around trying to make themselves happy no matter what, no matter if they hurt women. It's easy for them to believe this, even I came to think this at some point. But then I saw the truth, I saw that men's love for women was such that if women tell them that they don't like the color of the sky they will get together to change the color. However if women tell them that they don't like the sky, men will get together to destroy the sky and most likely will.\n\nGender roles are not bad, what is bad about gender roles is how often they are seen as mandatory rather than optional. Gender roles in most of the way they are composed are suggestions about what each sex has better chances of being good at, but this is not true 100% and it never will be. Some people fight the mandatory aspect of the roles because they know they can't reach 100% and feel like they've been set up to fail. Some gender roles have no basis on biological reality, that's something else to keep in mind.\n\nYou are expressing the feeling I've seen most men have, despite how many women may think that men think they are superior, in my experience this is not the case.",
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      "body": "I’m Jake. I’m 40. I have worked in 13 countries, learned communicative fluency in 7 languages, authored a memoir, interviewed 1000s of people across the globe, and introduced 53 products to the marketplace.\n\nI’m weird. I’m eccentric. I’m passionate. I’m strong.\n\nI’m divorced. I was an excellent husband and I am an excellent father.\n\nYet, in my artistic aspiration for near perfection, I have some very serious, fundamental flaws. Despite my best efforts in trying and trying and trying my entire life to see the world with optimistic and objective eyes, I did it all wrong. Though I claim to be a true man, everything I have worked for since a young boy has drastically backfired.\n\nMen, are we man enough to be Kings? By birth, we have one gift permeating all our rights on this earth - To show and express love. Innately, we physically and emotionally protect, exhibit strength, carry burdens, enforce chivalry, exceptionally father, and pedestal our women. 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They clean, cook, mother, feed, wash, bathe, groom, shop, work, sleep with one eye open, instill protection, apply makeup, dress up, exercise, worry, fret, nag, harvest, sew, iron, launder, and beg. They are stronger than any other life force on earth, save one - Us.\n\nWe are just as strong; physically, mentally, and emotionally. But how do we viscerally surface these strengths?\n\nLogic will never win over emotion. Ever. No matter what words of logic we cast at emotion, it will not\nwin. The ‘happy wife, happy life’ adage misleads us to think we must cower to our ladies’ demands and\nwishes. No. We do not cower to our ladies’ demands, wishes, and flip outs. We support them. We hold\nthem. We cuddle them and coddle them. We protect, pamper, and indulge them. We commandeer the\ncharge to work it out together with them. It is our gift; we must bear the responsibility to learn to carry\nalmost all the weight. 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