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      "body": "Unearned, as the name implies, refers to the achievement or possession of the labor of others without labor. In our real life, there are always a lot of people who want to get something for nothing. They all have one thing in common. They want to grow fast, but don't understand that everything must be done honestly to achieve something. They are the mentality of luck, but in the end a self inflicted fate, do not work, they want to get, in real life is not possible.\n\"Passive\" is a story about is known to every family, I was a farmer to a hit on the stump of the hare, will never go farming, and every day sitting on the stump waiting for a hare to hit, what also didn't get the results. This story tells us that it is only accidental that you won't work without work, and that such a person will eventually get nothing. Not through hard work and labor is what is not, for people who may have a moment of happiness, but their happiness is often in the selfish, Sungongfeisi, even built on the suffering of others. Easy come, easy to go. As the saying goes, \"do not lose heart, do not fear ghosts to knock at the door.\" Those who do not work for people as a result of conscience, is always jittery, in order to prevent the state of extreme nervousness., \"trouble all day and the criminal conspiracy has been unmasked\", for fear of being arrested and sleep all day. Are those criminals just so? I think it is not a pleasure, but a torment of pain. Dreamed of winning the lottery or put the time and effort spent on the table, these flourishes dreams do not know how many people harm! Recently, I saw this news in the newspaper: a bank employee in Handan had a good family, but robbed tens of millions of banks and soon fell into the French Open. According to his account, he spent about forty million to buy a lottery ticket to after winning, quietly will also end, public funds, water bamboo sieve, but also face severe legal sanctions, don't call people regret? What a sad end it is to get without work. There are many examples to tell people to seek happiness for use unscrupulous divisive tactics will only backfire, sorrow, only rely on honest labor, their own hard work, in order to get their share of the fruits of his!\nRemember, there is no unearned thing in the world.\n不劳而获，顾名思义，是指自己不劳动而取得或占有别人的劳动成果。在我们的现实生活中，总有不少想不劳而获的人，他们都有一个共同点，那就是想快速发达，却不明白做一切事情都必须老老实实地努力才能有所成就。他们存在的是碰运气的心态，到头来却落个自作自受的下场，不耕耘，便想得到，在现实生活中是不可能实现的。\n《守株待兔》是一个家喻户晓的故事，讲的是一位农民偶获到一只撞死在树桩上的野兔，便从此不去种地，而每天坐在树桩上等待野兔撞来，结果什么也没得到。这个故事告诉我们，不劳而获只是偶然，这样的人终将一无所获。不通过努力和劳动是什么也得不到的，不劳而获的人可能有一时的快乐，但是他们的快乐往往是在损人利己，损公肥私，甚至建立在他人的痛苦之上。来得容易，去得也容易。俗话说：“不作亏心事，不怕鬼敲门。”那些不劳而获得人由于做了亏心事，常常是风声鹤唳，草木皆兵，整天在为防止“东窗事发”而费心劳神，整天因害怕落入法网而寝食难安。那些犯罪分子不正是如此吗？我想这样的不劳而获，带给自己的决不是愉悦的享受，而是痛苦的折磨。梦想中彩票或是把时间和精力花在赌桌上，这些一夜暴富的梦想不知贻害了多少人！最近我在报纸上看到了这样的消息：邯郸市一家银行的工作人员，本来家境不错，却偷盗了银行几千万元，很快落入了法网。据他交代，他花了四千多万去买彩票，想中奖之后，悄悄将公款还上，到头来呢，竹篮水一场空，还要面临法律的严厉制裁，难道不叫人惋惜吗？这样的不劳而获，是多么可悲的下场。还有很多例子告诉人们，不择手段去寻求不劳而获的快乐只会适得其反，乐极生悲，只有依靠自己的诚实劳动，勤奋努力，才能心安理得地获取自己应得的果实！\n记住，天下没有不劳而获的事。",
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