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comment | "parent_author":"",<br>"parent_permlink":"family",<br>"author":"thebobmahanexp",<br>"permlink":"the-quality-of-my-life-is-the-quality-of-my-relationships",<br>"title":"The Quality of My Life,<br> Is the Quality of My Relationships",<br>"body":"I'm 51. My boys are 10,<br> 9,<br> 7. I lived 22 years as my parents child,<br> 12 years as a single adult,<br> and 6 years as a married adult without children,<br> before our oldest was born. \n\nI appreciate that I was able to experience those different lifestyles for several years before becoming a father. I travelled extensively as a single person. I remember visiting the Grand Canyon alone. It was amazing. I stood at the rim. Looked beside me,<br> and no one was there. I realized that I did not want to experience the joys of life alone. \n\nMy wife and I did many fun things during our years without children. We enjoyed our life,<br> but realized that we would rather share it with others. We had a wonderful life,<br> and wanted children to experience it with us. \n\nI realized that the quality of my life is the quality of my relationships. When I traveled as a single person,<br> relationships were difficult. When I worked in my career,<br> my time as a father was not how I wanted it. I've made drastic changes to make my relationships be how I wanted them. \n\nI'm not accomplishing things. I'm not reaching goals. I'm living. I'm enjoying my time with my family. I'm being here now with them. I don't want it any other way.",<br>"json_metadata":" \"tags\":[\"family\",<br>\"relationships\",<br>\"freedom\",<br>\"travel\",<br>\"parenting\" " | vote | "voter":"thebobmahanexp", "author":"thebobmahanexp", "permlink":"the-quality-of-my-life-is-the-quality-of-my-relationships", "weight":10000 |
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