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| comment | | "parent_author":"",<br>"parent_permlink":"sex",<br>"author":"cantor1124",<br>"permlink":"lyt3m-how-to-know-when-it-s-time-to-break-up",<br>"title":"How To Know When It\u2019s Time To Break Up",<br>"body":"We all know relationships are difficult. Millennials get flak for being the generation that needs instant gratification. Basically they\u2019re saying we don\u2019t know how to stick by our partners when shit gets tough. However,<br> it\u2019s hard to know when you should call it quits or hang in there. People tend to exhaust all possibilities before terminating their relationships,<br> investing time,<br> energy,<br> effort and a great deal of love. The hardest part is coming to terms with the relationship not working. Here\u2019s how to know when its time to break up.\n\n\n\nThey Cheated\n\nWhile people have their options about cheating,<br> there truly is no excuse for it,<br> especially at this age. It\u2019s quite simple \u2013 if they loved you,<br> they wouldn\u2019t have sought satisfaction elsewhere. Although you may love them,<br> setting boundaries for yourself is crucial. By taking this person back you\u2019re accepting their behavior \u2013 and truthfully,<br> their behavior won\u2019t change if they see you let it slide. Cheating is the ultimate betrayal. More importantly,<br> it\u2019s paramount you know your self-worth. If you allow others to walk all over you,<br> you\u2019ll attract that sort of behavior. This is rule one of how to know when its time to break up. You know trust is severed.\n\n\n\nDouble Standards\n\nHow to know when its time to break up,<br> rule 2! This could potentially be one of the most frustrating things to tolerate in a relationship. If your partner is giving you grief for something the frequently commit themselves,<br> this shows their controlling demeanor. Relationships are about compromise and give and take. It shouldn\u2019t be one demanding something from the other. This is a big no. If your partner can\u2019t respect you,<br> end the relationship. Again,<br> know your self-worth.\n\n\n\nThey\u2019re Controlling\n\nThis goes hand in hand with the previous how to know when its time to break up rule. Controlling behavior can show itself in many forms. Regardless,<br> whatever the form may be,<br> if it\u2019s happening it\u2019s got to stop. You are your own person and can only control yourself. If your partner is telling you what to do,<br> they are overstepping boundaries. That\u2019s their insecurities being portrayed on you. If they are telling you what you can and cannot post on social media,<br> who you hang out with or who you talk to,<br> these are all red flags.\n\n\n\n \n You Don\u2019t See Your Friends\n\nThis is a common problem with relationships in college. If you find yourself rarely seeing your friends,<br> it\u2019s a red flag. This is a sign of an unhealthy relationship. It is crucial to have your own space and freedom within a relationship. You need to be allowed to be two independent individuals before committing to a relationship. Love shouldn\u2019t be smothering. If you can\u2019t do things without them,<br> there\u2019s insecurity within the relationship.\n\n\n\nYour Friends & Family Dislike Them\n\nYour friends and family have a good handle on who you are and can tell if someone isn\u2019t the right fit. That\u2019s not to say they are always correct,<br> especially since there is a lot that goes on behind closed doors. However,<br> if they aren\u2019t crazy about your significant other,<br> it\u2019s a red flag. I would at least want the person I\u2019m with to get along with the people closest to me.\n\n\n\nThey\u2019re Abusive\n\nTo several people this is usually a no brainer but there are several discrete forms of abuse. There is verbal,<br> emotional and physical abuse. Frequently in emotionally abusive relationships,<br> your partner makes you feel as though you are the problem \u2013 red flag. Being put down,<br> blamed,<br> lashed out on and controlled are all forms of abuse so don\u2019t disregard them! People generally ask why would you stay in a relationship like that but it\u2019s a lot harder than people would believe. This is one sign of how to know when its time to break up.\n\n\n\nYou\u2019re Unhappy\n\nHappiness is key in a relationship \u2013 it truly is. If you find yourself more unhappy than happy,<br> it\u2019s time to end the relationship. Stress is unhealthy and constant fighting is too. You owe it to yourself to be happy. Focus on yourself. This is a crucial way of how to know when its time to break up. Listen to what your mind is telling you.\n\n![E2E3E77B-F5E5-4563-8944-512227663468.jpeg (https:\/\/steemitimages.com\/DQmeGTpiuUt9u9yZ9SiKgSiBmbtRCGQDSZBu592kDtq1vVh\/E2E3E77B-F5E5-4563-8944-512227663468.jpeg)\n\nYou Think Of Breaking Up\n\nIf this thought has crossed your mind multiple times,<br> it truly is something to take note of. The longer you sit around being unhappy,<br> the harder it will be to let go of the relationship. It\u2019s crucial you remain honest with yourself and your partner. If you already have doubts,<br> chances are things will only get worse. It\u2019s your heart telling you,<br> you are no longer interested in the relationship. This is an important rule of how to know when its time to break up.",<br>"json_metadata":" \"tags\":[\"sex\",<br>\"health\",<br>\"relationship\" ,<br>\"image\":[\"https:\/\/steemitimages.com\/DQmeGTpiuUt9u9yZ9SiKgSiBmbtRCGQDSZBu592kDtq1vVh\/E2E3E77B-F5E5-4563-8944-512227663468.jpeg\" ,<br>\"app\":\"steemit\/0.1\",<br>\"format\":\"markdown\" " | | vote | "voter":"cantor1124",
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