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| comment | | "parent_author":"",<br>"parent_permlink":"life",<br>"author":"shontee-adabs",<br>"permlink":"how-do-you-view-mistakes",<br>"title":"How Do You View Mistakes?",<br>"body":"It was a bright Saturday morning with the sun so warm and bright and in Bella's head,<br> she's like ,<br>\"its gonna be an awesome day\ud83d\ude00\". She is preparing for a family function and its her responsibility to fry the chicken. While frying it,<br> she heard her baby girl crying so loud in the living room and she rushed over to check if she's okay. Next thing she knows,<br> the fire alarm goes off and there's alot of smoke from the kitchen. Her next words just like yours would probably be \"oh,<br> shit!!\" And her day doesn't look as bright and awesome again\ud83d\ude29.\nGranted,<br> it wasn't totally her fault and it was unintentional but if we are in that kind of situation,<br> how do we deal with it especially when we are questioned at the function by a family member. Do we say something like \"yea,<br> its a burnt chicken,<br> so wat??,<br> if u dont like it,<br> go buy your own chicken \" or \"i blame him or her for making me fry the chicken,<br> why didn't he tell someone else to do it\" or \"i didn't burn it,<br> someone else did it\",<br> thereby,<br> minimizing our mistakes,<br> shifting the blame or outrightly denying we made a mistake. \nThe consequences of such is that the problem remains unsolved(no chicken at the party\ud83d\ude25 ) or someone else is innocently blamed. \nSo instead of spending much time and energy apportioning blame or justifying our mistakes,<br> why not just simply apologize \ud83d\ude4f and put things right.\nDon't feel ashamed to own up to your mistakes,<br> no matter how bad it is. Remember that everyone makes mistakes. What works for me is LCM- Learn from the mistake,<br> Correct it and Move on. This makes you a more happier person and it'll help improve your relationship with people. \nAnd what if you find yourself at the receiving end of the mistake,<br> meaning,<br> someone's mistake affected you,<br> how should you react?\n Undoubtedly,<br> its not pleasant but treat the person how you would want to be treated when you make mistakes. Don't harshly scold,<br> angrily insult or abuse.. Don't call names and say things like \"you're good for nothing\" or \"you cant do anything right\" or \"you're such a useless person \". Instead sympathize with the person,<br> be understanding,<br> show kindness and mildly correct the person.\nThen everyone would live happily ever after!!! \ud83d\ude01\ud83d\udc6b\ud83d\udc6d\ud83d\udc6a\ud83d\udc6c\ud83d\udc6b\ud83d\udc6d\ud83d\udc6a\ud83d\udc6b\ud83d\udc6b\ud83d\udc6f\n![images.png (https:\/\/steemitimages.com\/DQmY93xCHUirzLtH2sabFaB197px6zSXRBTBjp7QBYiEBMX\/images.png)![images (1).jpeg (https:\/\/steemitimages.com\/DQmZa8hCvbqNvmdw3WMfGnnYCFyienHbDfwQAN4mybQ8V7o\/images%20(1).jpeg)![images.jpeg (https:\/\/steemitimages.com\/DQmaE7ph2LaNwjmbXxNJpk48uqMQJHeqyDq9rCPJStDztUX\/images.jpeg)",<br>"json_metadata":" \"tags\":[\"life\",<br>\"relationship\",<br>\"steemit\",<br>\"jw-org\",<br>\"mistakes\" ,<br>\"image\":[\"https:\/\/steemitimages.com\/DQmY93xCHUirzLtH2sabFaB197px6zSXRBTBjp7QBYiEBMX\/images.png\",<br>\"https:\/\/steemitimages.com\/DQmZa8hCvbqNvmdw3WMfGnnYCFyienHbDfwQAN4mybQ8V7o\/images%20(1).jpeg\",<br>\"https:\/\/steemitimages.com\/DQmaE7ph2LaNwjmbXxNJpk48uqMQJHeqyDq9rCPJStDztUX\/images.jpeg\" ,<br>\"app\":\"steemit\/0.1\",<br>\"format\":\"markdown\" " |
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