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VOTING POWER100.00%
DOWNVOTE POWER100.00%
RESOURCE CREDITS100.00%
REPUTATION PROGRESS0.00%
Net Worth
0.037USD
STEEM
0.000STEEM
SBD
0.000SBD
Effective Power
5.008SP
├── Own SP
0.631SP
└── Incoming Deleg
+4.377SP

Detailed Balance

STEEM
balance
0.000STEEM
market_balance
0.000STEEM
savings_balance
0.000STEEM
reward_steem_balance
0.000STEEM
STEEM POWER
Own SP
0.631SP
Delegated Out
0.000SP
Delegation In
4.377SP
Effective Power
5.008SP
Reward SP (pending)
0.000SP
SBD
sbd_balance
0.000SBD
sbd_conversions
0.000SBD
sbd_market_balance
0.000SBD
savings_sbd_balance
0.000SBD
reward_sbd_balance
0.000SBD
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  "sbd_balance": "0.000 SBD",
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Account Info

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id462004
rank1,331,340
reputation60499442
created2017-11-24T19:26:48
recovery_accountsteem
proxyNone
post_count1
comment_count0
lifetime_vote_count0
witnesses_voted_for0
last_post2019-01-17T06:52:00
last_root_post2019-01-17T06:52:00
last_vote_time2017-11-25T02:31:33
proxied_vsf_votes0, 0, 0, 0
can_vote1
voting_power0
delayed_votes0
balance0.000 STEEM
savings_balance0.000 STEEM
sbd_balance0.000 SBD
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vesting_balance0.000 STEEM
vesting_withdraw_rate0.000000 VESTS
next_vesting_withdrawal1969-12-31T23:59:59
withdrawn0
to_withdraw0
withdraw_routes0
savings_withdraw_requests0
last_account_recovery1970-01-01T00:00:00
reset_accountnull
last_owner_update1970-01-01T00:00:00
last_account_update2019-01-17T06:56:42
minedNo
sbd_seconds0
sbd_last_interest_payment1970-01-01T00:00:00
savings_sbd_last_interest_payment1970-01-01T00:00:00
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Withdraw Routes

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}
From Date
To Date
steemdelegated 4.377 SP to @acquisitor
2026/05/17 20:52:12
delegateeacquisitor
delegatorsteem
vesting shares7117.152546 VESTS
Transaction InfoBlock #106139404/Trx d404e92d29aa09aa5a9a26d1371107f499184ec5
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steemdelegated 2.709 SP to @acquisitor
2026/05/11 16:22:42
delegateeacquisitor
delegatorsteem
vesting shares4404.942141 VESTS
Transaction InfoBlock #105961997/Trx f2b616e6956ea7a56f29b0fb301aebc9134a476c
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steemdelegated 4.385 SP to @acquisitor
2026/04/25 20:18:15
delegateeacquisitor
delegatorsteem
vesting shares7129.668302 VESTS
Transaction InfoBlock #105507151/Trx 75f45f28aabac772d2135b985a64ac7538781904
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steemdelegated 2.734 SP to @acquisitor
2026/01/22 22:44:21
delegateeacquisitor
delegatorsteem
vesting shares4446.488960 VESTS
Transaction InfoBlock #102840958/Trx d55b67b0278b35680ccabdd72b6c5cce9d5dcf9d
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steemdelegated 2.835 SP to @acquisitor
2024/12/16 18:05:42
delegateeacquisitor
delegatorsteem
vesting shares4610.708157 VESTS
Transaction InfoBlock #91287410/Trx 571b2b42d5f636230d303b749bde808011f69781
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steemdelegated 2.939 SP to @acquisitor
2023/11/13 09:52:00
delegateeacquisitor
delegatorsteem
vesting shares4779.841689 VESTS
Transaction InfoBlock #79841701/Trx cd02615876986aab72c03a61d3366b64eea028ad
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steemdelegated 4.746 SP to @acquisitor
2023/09/21 17:50:33
delegateeacquisitor
delegatorsteem
vesting shares7717.120475 VESTS
Transaction InfoBlock #78343063/Trx b123815a765d60c06f257ae1fcb3d06112ca3050
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steemdelegated 4.882 SP to @acquisitor
2022/11/03 08:06:15
delegateeacquisitor
delegatorsteem
vesting shares7938.801913 VESTS
Transaction InfoBlock #69108959/Trx 702d2b74212c76bed91446a16a01afa9480a02e8
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steemdelegated 5.018 SP to @acquisitor
2022/01/17 07:42:21
delegateeacquisitor
delegatorsteem
vesting shares8159.335144 VESTS
Transaction InfoBlock #60805536/Trx 356d9c71252192eb442f2ce7c96bc0dd3d0a5254
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steemdelegated 5.131 SP to @acquisitor
2021/06/13 21:45:48
delegateeacquisitor
delegatorsteem
vesting shares8343.103802 VESTS
Transaction InfoBlock #54604091/Trx d65f3b4a9e549e4143d446e7fd965d5e2704e96d
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steemdelegated 5.246 SP to @acquisitor
2020/12/11 08:09:12
delegateeacquisitor
delegatorsteem
vesting shares8530.525776 VESTS
Transaction InfoBlock #49351678/Trx c860239a824f0526992a20565ac170dbbb00f5cb
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steemdelegated 1.176 SP to @acquisitor
2020/12/06 01:46:30
delegateeacquisitor
delegatorsteem
vesting shares1912.543513 VESTS
Transaction InfoBlock #49203244/Trx c71bd3d5309375bed04d7b727ad2101a338e29b3
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steemdelegated 5.257 SP to @acquisitor
2020/11/25 14:32:21
delegateeacquisitor
delegatorsteem
vesting shares8547.652393 VESTS
Transaction InfoBlock #48906202/Trx 28a540c43ee928fec3646a38db10b66d1e767b36
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steemdelegated 5.375 SP to @acquisitor
2020/05/09 02:41:06
delegateeacquisitor
delegatorsteem
vesting shares8739.538989 VESTS
Transaction InfoBlock #43213457/Trx 4c07ecd4fcb173765741fccbaaae9be695e47b58
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steemdelegated 1.201 SP to @acquisitor
2020/05/08 05:49:09
delegateeacquisitor
delegatorsteem
vesting shares1953.311140 VESTS
Transaction InfoBlock #43189003/Trx 5cfd2bf7801d1c56a75128dd561c180c35c9a45e
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steemdelegated 5.391 SP to @acquisitor
2020/03/18 23:11:27
delegateeacquisitor
delegatorsteem
vesting shares8766.420605 VESTS
Transaction InfoBlock #41772252/Trx b207506d598d8a41a53024bc76f093f2b6f49daa
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2019/11/24 21:13:51
authorsteemitboard
bodyCongratulations @acquisitor! You received a personal award! <table><tr><td>https://steemitimages.com/70x70/http://steemitboard.com/@acquisitor/birthday2.png</td><td>Happy Birthday! - You are on the Steem blockchain for 2 years!</td></tr></table> <sub>_You can view [your badges on your Steem Board](https://steemitboard.com/@acquisitor) and compare to others on the [Steem Ranking](https://steemitboard.com/ranking/index.php?name=acquisitor)_</sub> ###### [Vote for @Steemitboard as a witness](https://v2.steemconnect.com/sign/account-witness-vote?witness=steemitboard&approve=1) to get one more award and increased upvotes!
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      "body": "Congratulations @acquisitor! You received a personal award!\n\n<table><tr><td>https://steemitimages.com/70x70/http://steemitboard.com/@acquisitor/birthday2.png</td><td>Happy Birthday! - You are on the Steem blockchain for 2 years!</td></tr></table>\n\n<sub>_You can view [your badges on your Steem Board](https://steemitboard.com/@acquisitor) and compare to others on the [Steem Ranking](https://steemitboard.com/ranking/index.php?name=acquisitor)_</sub>\n\n\n###### [Vote for @Steemitboard as a witness](https://v2.steemconnect.com/sign/account-witness-vote?witness=steemitboard&approve=1) to get one more award and increased upvotes!",
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steemdelegated 5.512 SP to @acquisitor
2019/04/18 08:37:27
delegateeacquisitor
delegatorsteem
vesting shares8962.296793 VESTS
Transaction InfoBlock #32147126/Trx 62f520182a85723a114807cde71b7a875572d049
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2019/02/26 07:51:33
authorpartiko
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2019/01/17 06:52:27
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2019/01/17 06:52:00
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body![](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmb8UqiDRAeGXuBRL6P68PMhFdnFadtYfUDyVYH8N2n8Vh/image.jpeg) I wanted to share an opinion piece about others being difficult in relationships. Most of these articles are aimed at either men or women, but I do not see why the question cannot be posed at a more fundamental level. The trouble-giver can be your husband, your wife, your mother-in-law or just about any member of your family. Given the vast demographic “my girlfriend is being difficult” has appeal to, it is unsurprising that just about any news outlet has published an advisory piece on the topic. Depending on the political orientation of the outlet, these pieces range everywhere from some apologist “it’s a good thing you are being hurt” to some Red Pill “women are children treat them as such” to a Judeo-Christian “Jesus has said so and so about it”. Being none of above, I would like to present you with a purely utilitarian view of the issue from the perspective of a career-driven individual. # A principled stance Now let me get this absolutely clear: **there is no excuse for throwing a fit**. It does not matter if it is you having a bad day, someone else being difficult or something going wrong. Unless you lost a loved one, stop! We teach children to behave like adults, so that once they get past puberty, they can behave in a manner than society deems worthy and succeed within it. It is also the reason why we abhor violent crime and seek to remove it from the society. Nobody likes getting shouted at, being denigrated or hit. ![](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmXsei21D21Bg9EH9gq6PvmhFDqeQkvcNPHAj5NMCH1QL8/image.jpeg) Understand that this goes both ways. If your significant other or family member is being difficult, **do not** become a difficult yourself. This will not convince anyone that you are right; merely that you are being unreasonable at which point you are at fault. You may think that you are merely striking back, but because the other party rarely sees any fault in their own actions, you will merely be regarded as instigating a war of aggression. # Disagreeing with “good advice” Now this is where I differ from most articles surveyed on this topic. ![](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmSVDLb25SMWW6n4DWASSrjKXRL6SppgnAS2RhEtZ3Q3zo/image.jpeg) Someone being difficult once in a while does not in my opinion constitute psychological abuse and you should not immediately consider divorce. Consider the good and the bad, take your time and you will see how the advice-giver has reduced a large chunk of your life to one single bad aspect of it. Frankly, Internet advice-givers considering all marital troubles “psychological abuse” strikes me as erringly similar to Web MD telling you that just about any feeling of discomfort can be a sign of cancer. It is silly in most cases and your doctor will usually agree. You are also not necessarily in the wrong. It does not matter if someone is being “complicated” or under the influence of hormones or whatever; you are being hurt as a result thereof. There is no excuse. Asking yourself whether you did something wrong is not bad per se, but every fight has a beginning and it makes little sense indoctrinating yourself in the idea that you are always the guilty one. Do not denigrate yourself, because some HuffPost guy with a stubble told you to. Lastly, get the Red Pill or extremist feminist nonsense out of your head. Reading things you want to read will make you feel better about yourself for the moment, but you will not be doing yourself any favors if you consider half of the Earth’s population mentally deficient. There is no doubt that men and women are different in aggregate, but it is always wiser to deal with individual issues on an individual basis. If you want to see just about anyone get unreasonable, start a debate about their favorite political party, ideological belief or hobby they are particularly passionate about. Go tell a proud Tesla-owner that Elon Musk is a fattie and can’t run a business. Just don’t expect to be invited for dinner again. # Lesson: Profit can be made under all circumstances The remaining question is then: **What should you do when someone is being difficult to you for no good reason?** The answer: **Be as rational as your would be in any other situation.** This is much more difficult and requires much more practice than some adhoc rationalization pulled out of one’s behind. Getting what you perceive to be an attack on you, especially from a loved one, can easily throw you off balance. Some are much better at dealing with it than others, but as the old saying goes “Heaven has no rage like love to hatred turned, nor Hell a fury like a woman scorned.” You do not want to manipulate the clearly distraught other, but you do want to be reasonable and make the best out of the situation. Getting wound up is usually not the best way of going about it, even if you feel justified to do so at the moment. Keeping yourself composed in such circumstances is an **essential life skill necessary in most walks of life**, so consider someone giving you a hard time as a challenge that will make you a better person rather than a reason to become unreasonable yourself. ![](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmb2mqJ5LD9snbdBNqjGdQ92d5cjM871ouhPnKZNFXA1vQ/image.jpeg) You may have often seen positions advertised as requiring one to “work under pressure” and “meet deadlines”. When things get tough and the tough get going, it can be a matter of survival to retain a cool head in the face of spreading panic. In many business circumstances, you will generally have the time to regain composure and reevaluate the situation, but in many others you will not. The higher you are up the pay ladder, the more you will be expected to retain composture. This is particularly the case for client-facing work and your workspace relationships. Many of you had to deal with service employees, especially those at the very bottom of the food chain, acting unprofessionally and being unnecessarily rude towards you. This is what **you** are like when you given in. You never ever want to be that person to your clients. Similarly, you never ever want to be that person towards your employer or your seniors. You are not being a pushover by not causing a fuss; you are being professional. Do not like it? Do something about it. Translate this same attitude towards the person being difficult in your relationship and learn from it. Short of separation or disowning your family, a familial spat is usually a forgive-and-forget affair. Your employer losing confidence in you or a client giving worse feedback about you than they would have otherwise is not as easy to remedy. (https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmS64L9m1HSfr6zGtYBYYJZ6MrRra39D11gjcLMMnC2vQ5/image.jpeg) Remember what I have written about teaching children. It is children, not adults. Adults learn by themselves and, short of going to prison, chances are you will not be very good at educating someone that they should throw fewer fits. Even if you do, there will always be other people in your life that you will not be able to change. Learning to not let it get to you is the only solution and getting uncessary nonsense from a family member once in a while is a splendid opportunity to keep yourself in shape. Remember: “Sticks and stones will break my bones, but words will never harm me“. Be that person. And if you do need to get it out of your system, get those running shoes out of the wardrobe and hit the dirt. ![](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmScJK14sAccyuWtbE5mZujakNTBhrk2KnLyNGhgs117gs/image.jpeg)
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Being none of above, I would like to present you with a purely utilitarian view of the issue from the perspective of a career-driven individual.\n\n# A principled stance\nNow let me get this absolutely clear: **there is no excuse for throwing a fit**. It does not matter if it is you having a bad day, someone else being difficult or something going wrong. Unless you lost a loved one, stop! We teach children to behave like adults, so that once they get past puberty, they can behave in a manner than society deems worthy and succeed within it. It is also the reason why we abhor violent crime and seek to remove it from the society. Nobody likes getting shouted at, being denigrated or hit.\n\n![](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmXsei21D21Bg9EH9gq6PvmhFDqeQkvcNPHAj5NMCH1QL8/image.jpeg)\n\nUnderstand that this goes both ways. If your significant other or family member is being difficult, **do not** become a difficult yourself. This will not convince anyone that you are right; merely that you are being unreasonable at which point you are at fault. You may think that you are merely striking back, but because the other party rarely sees any fault in their own actions, you will merely be regarded as instigating a war of aggression.\n\n# Disagreeing with “good advice”\nNow this is where I differ from most articles surveyed on this topic.\n\n![](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmSVDLb25SMWW6n4DWASSrjKXRL6SppgnAS2RhEtZ3Q3zo/image.jpeg)\n\nSomeone being difficult once in a while does not in my opinion constitute psychological abuse and you should not immediately consider divorce. Consider the good and the bad, take your time and you will see how the advice-giver has reduced a large chunk of your life to one single bad aspect of it. Frankly, Internet advice-givers considering all marital troubles “psychological abuse” strikes me as erringly similar to Web MD telling you that just about any feeling of discomfort can be a sign of cancer. It is silly in most cases and your doctor will usually agree.\n\nYou are also not necessarily in the wrong. It does not matter if someone is being “complicated” or under the influence of hormones or whatever; you are being hurt as a result thereof. There is no excuse. Asking yourself whether you did something wrong is not bad per se, but every fight has a beginning and it makes little sense indoctrinating yourself in the idea that you are always the guilty one. Do not denigrate yourself, because some HuffPost guy with a stubble told you to.\n\nLastly, get the Red Pill or extremist feminist nonsense out of your head. Reading things you want to read will make you feel better about yourself for the moment, but you will not be doing yourself any favors if you consider half of the Earth’s population mentally deficient. There is no doubt that men and women are different in aggregate, but it is always wiser to deal with individual issues on an individual basis. If you want to see just about anyone get unreasonable, start a debate about their favorite political party, ideological belief or hobby they are particularly passionate about. Go tell a proud Tesla-owner that Elon Musk is a fattie and can’t run a business. Just don’t expect to be invited for dinner again.\n\n# Lesson: Profit can be made under all circumstances\nThe remaining question is then:\n**What should you do when someone is being difficult to you for no good reason?**\n\nThe answer:\n**Be as rational as your would be in any other situation.**\n\nThis is much more difficult and requires much more practice than some adhoc rationalization pulled out of one’s behind. Getting what you perceive to be an attack on you, especially from a loved one, can easily throw you off balance. Some are much better at dealing with it than others, but as the old saying goes “Heaven has no rage like love to hatred turned, nor Hell a fury like a woman scorned.” You do not want to manipulate the clearly distraught other, but you do want to be reasonable and make the best out of the situation. Getting wound up is usually not the best way of going about it, even if you feel justified to do so at the moment.\n\nKeeping yourself composed in such circumstances is an **essential life skill necessary in most walks of life**, so consider someone giving you a hard time as a challenge that will make you a better person rather than a reason to become unreasonable yourself.\n\n![](https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmb2mqJ5LD9snbdBNqjGdQ92d5cjM871ouhPnKZNFXA1vQ/image.jpeg)\n\nYou may have often seen positions advertised as requiring one to “work under pressure” and “meet deadlines”. When things get tough and the tough get going, it can be a matter of survival to retain a cool head in the face of spreading panic. In many business circumstances, you will generally have the time to regain composure and reevaluate the situation, but in many others you will not. The higher you are up the pay ladder, the more you will be expected to retain composture.\n\nThis is particularly the case for client-facing work and your workspace relationships. Many of you had to deal with service employees, especially those at the very bottom of the food chain, acting unprofessionally and being unnecessarily rude towards you. This is what **you** are like when you given in. You never ever want to be that person to your clients. Similarly, you never ever want to be that person towards your employer or your seniors. You are not being a pushover by not causing a fuss; you are being professional. Do not like it? Do something about it.\n\nTranslate this same attitude towards the person being difficult in your relationship and learn from it. Short of separation or disowning your family, a familial spat is usually a forgive-and-forget affair. Your employer losing confidence in you or a client giving worse feedback about you than they would have otherwise is not as easy to remedy.\n\n(https://cdn.steemitimages.com/DQmS64L9m1HSfr6zGtYBYYJZ6MrRra39D11gjcLMMnC2vQ5/image.jpeg)\n\nRemember what I have written about teaching children. It is children, not adults. Adults learn by themselves and, short of going to prison, chances are you will not be very good at educating someone that they should throw fewer fits. Even if you do, there will always be other people in your life that you will not be able to change. Learning to not let it get to you is the only solution and getting uncessary nonsense from a family member once in a while is a splendid opportunity to keep yourself in shape.\n\nRemember: “Sticks and stones will break my bones, but words will never harm me“. Be that person. 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